BT i realise your love for your kidds makes you stay, but if you get divorced wont she fight for joint costody? she will have time with the kidds anyway unless you try to get full costody which as a man is VERY hard. i would recomend you moving out. and tell her when you do its because you want to give her space and you respect her enought to do what she asks. right now it seem she is asking you for something and you are not giving it to her, so in sure in her mind she is being pressured byu you no matter how many arguments you avoid.
