Well what about him now makes him lovable? yes the decision to love is what makes marrages work, as the puppy dog love we all have when we first meet does fade with time. but right now does he ahve any redeeeming qualities? do you see even hints of any? then yes hang on.he is your husband and you are his wife and if you guys can make it throught these times you will have unbalevable strengh. and if not you will be able to hold your head high , and realise that you never gave up on a marrage, not once. you stood in a society were a disposable marrage is right around the corner everywere. people get married after a week and get divorced a wek later.
the simple fact your here and not out looking at other men or complaining to a few sympathetic biased people means something. your working to save something your swore infront of your friends and family to to for ever. Hugs Ladey B your doing the best you can
