Small positive steps # 5

[AliSuddenly]

hey Kalni...Well done for phoning her! It doesnt sound all bad? When your T said - She said "no, am I speaking Greek or not?, he feels miserable, he wants your life back just doesn't want it to become like it used to be the last year. And if he came back without working on himself you would be in the same position in 3 months guaranteed..."
So does that mean he intends to work on himself, or is that her interpretation of why he wont come back? I think you're very lucky at least that he reveals his inner most thoughts to this T and then she is happy to relay them to you! I wish I had that. Does he know that she repeats it all to you, or does he believe it is private? Anyway..knowledge is power, so well done for that.

Remember your stars for this week!...

Think of a seesaw. It remains level only when it is not in use. When one person sits on it, it shifts to an uneven position and stays there. When two climb on it oscillates endlessly. It never enters a state of perfect equilibrium. What's the problem? Well, there isn't one unless you feel, for some reason, that balance is very important. If you do, you can easily become irritated and aggravated by a scenario that just refuses to level itself out. Your challenge this week, is to accept a situation for what it is, not what you wish it was. If you can only do that, all will be fine.

Thinking of you,
Ali xxx
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Me: 36 H: 34
T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
will he reconnect?