Affair is over and WW is responding

[Doing_My_Best]

I'm beginning to wonder if it won't be me that ends it and not her.

I wish I had some advice for you here. But I don't. Right now, I feel EXACTLY like you do.

Basically told my W yesterday that I am patient person, but I have limits. I am not going to wait around forever.

Hope, we are in VERY similar places. (Except for the fact that your W is having no contact. Mine is...UGH)

I'm really thinking to do the ultimate in detaching here. Why keep putting myself and my kids through this?

ME too............. but this stuff doesn't happen overnight. We have to be patient and work at it. Unfortunately, us BS have to do ALL the work if we want the M. Sad...