Marcum, this is my W to a tee. I stopped telling her i have changed. She need to see it not be told it. She told me the other day that the true treeman is still down in there somewhere and he would return. I am such a better person now it is unreal. I have worked so hard on myself and am very happy with the changes with or without her.
i also wish there was a magic silver bullet that woulkd turn on her love for me, it will in time for both of us but the question is will we still be around? cheers