Kiwi , Its a maraton alright.

There is danger in expectations , as you think things are going well you get some and thats just human.

W has been a bit more distant and almost a little angry , as if shes got a plan and I am not going along with it.
Why the sudden change in behaviour , who knows ?

The one thing I do know is that guessing gets you nowhere other than to perhaps the wrong conclusion.
What I do have to do ( experiment and watch results ) is reverse the lack of contact and see if it was a reaction to me dropping contact. Will wait a few days to do this though , just in case its something external.

Right now all I can do is stay the course , get the focus back on myself and looking after the Kids.

I will admit to being a little disappointed but thats the way it goes.


Me 47
W 44
3 kids
Bomb Dec 06
Seperated July 07

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