Cali,

As a woman, what do you think about her pushing the D. Would you see that as finality? She says that she is 'never coming home' and 'doesn't see us together in the future' She has told me that I am a great man, father, provider and she finds me attractive but doesn't love me the way that she should to be married to me. I think that these words come from her involvement with OM but was wondering your point of view. I know that everyone is different as is every sitch.


Me 38
Her 31
Daughter 3

Dated 5 yrs
Married 7
PA Bomb 7/26/07
Sep 1 9/1/07
Sep 2 1/5/08

D filed 3/08/08
Final 4/08/08