You guys rock!!! I dont know what I would have ever done with out finding michelles books and this forum and supporters like you.
I often second guess if what I do and say with my H is right or not. But there is no doubt in my mind that this DB stuff works. It is just not always the natural response that most would give when they are hurting so badly, but it is getting a little easier to keep it up with time.
I would like to think that I have the patience of a saint. It is one of my greatest virtues (even my H used to tell me that). I am going to keep standing strong DBing my but off. And one day I can see my dream coming true.
He keeps pusuing me, and I like it. And it may even be a little fun to play hard to get. I just hope I get that chance again for him to try to reel me in. I love fishing!!!!
I like the sounds of getting the KLA tapes, it seems I might be able to benefit from it better now than when I first looked at the forum. Plus I would like to hear the voice of the women that i feel has saved my soul from so much despair and that has givin me so much hope.
Thanks for all your advice, I cherish it, and I will keep posting/journaling as events happen. H is supposed to be coming by on Tues when I am at work to get the dogs nails clipped & to finish off the hard wood floors he just put in. I am gonna try and think of a good way to repond with thanks and compliments that can help build his self esteem. TIPPER
