Hi GavinO,

Thanks very much for the words of encouragement. It's been a few days now since W and I have been in touch and I always find that the longing and despair begin their slow creep into my psyche after a few days without contact. She won't have access to email or internet (except an internet cafe) so I am not going to kill myself over it. I'll wait for her to get in touch again first - as that has been working and I want to keep doing what works.

All I can be pleased about is that the weather will be terrible whilst she's doing this little trip.

She has said to me that she will come home on 02.04.2008 but I will believe it when I see it - and only then.

Hope you're OK and getting through the days. It does get easier but some days are really, really tough.

GH31


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)