Confused as Ever

[Snow White]

I didn't know what to say at the time. I've had time to think about it since. When I met H I didn't know I had to save him so I guess the answer is no. I liked him because he was fun, funny, confident(he is actually the complete opposite of this), athletic and liked the same things I did. When he met OW she was already in a situation of needing to be saved.

People are like onions right, the longer I was with him the more I saw of how his past(his childhood) and his family life have effected the person he is today. He is a very insecure person with very little self confidence. He had a very hard time finding a job after he finished working at the store I worked at(it was seasonal) because he is poor in interviews and the more you have and fail the less confidence you have. I have always thought he deserved better than the job he is at and have tried to encourage him to look elsewhere, demand more as far as managing ect. I am beginning to think this was viewed as me not thinking he was good enough.

I was still in university when we met, we were more equal, there was no saving, I was a cashier. But I have grown I would say a lot more than he has. Now as far as today, yes I take all these things into account and I do not excuse my H for his actions but I feel like there is more to the picture - I guess there is to everyone's sitch. Maybe by making these excuses for him I am taking all the focus off any chance that it could have been something to do with me :-)