Its not my job :-)

That is what the counsellor said to me as I "justified" why I think my H got involved with OW because he needed to save her and that while I "need" H in that I love him there is nothing else I need him for as far as finanaces, help around the house ect.

He asked me if I felt I needed to save H.


Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009