That is what the counsellor said to me as I "justified" why I think my H got involved with OW because he needed to save her and that while I "need" H in that I love him there is nothing else I need him for as far as finanaces, help around the house ect.
He asked me if I felt I needed to save H.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009