I am really looking forward to it but it is hard to picture if H and I are still together how he is going to handle it.
Neecy, I think during this time of "focus-on-Neecy" you need to really think about why you feel the need to worry about how your husband is going to "handle" things like this.
Why is that your job?
You sound a bit like me, in that I am a big "rescuer."
