ADVICE Giving and Receiving

[sgctxok]

I understand your reasons for leaving. I left an abusive situation myself. I came to DB post divorce and there's no way I still would have DBd my exH. Except to diffuse the situations. I would have learned skills that would have helped me to do things differently and would have been better for my kids. It would have helped me during the divorce and times when I was afraid. It helps me diffuse things NOW....because 15 years later he is the same way.

I am not saying encourage someone who is being abused to leave or not get out.

But you are also not walking in their shoes.


I have jad to fire myself before too....and it was the right thing to do because someone else stepped in and offered another insight.