Tree, as long as she says you are 'in limbo', wouldn't that indicate that she has not checked out of the marriage yet?

Right now, the state of your marriage is determined by her...and she is saying 'limbo'.

I always say neutral is better than backwards.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!