What a great attitude...especially about the possibilities in your own life! Your H sounds like he is angry because he isn't getting his way with custody. Seriously, what he wants is very unreasonable. D3 yes, but the baby no way! When H and I were separated and going thru the D process he was fine and nice until I stood up for myself about something. It was usually about money in our case and paying certain bills. Then he turned into this mean ogre. It baffles me to no end how they cause all of this and expect us to just keep getting walked on. At a certain point you have to put up your hand and say "NO MORE" and do what is right for you and your kids.

You are doing great


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!