I realize she may gather the strength to set out on her own, of course that is a possible outcome. That is why I am working on giving her space, and letting her do the reaching out. I can screw this up with one misguided action or sentence.
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Something inside her wants to be "independant". When she's around you, she actually likes being with you, and no longer wishes to be independant.
Yes, I think so. A few times, we have been talking, and she has said "damn, I feel myself falling under your spell again". I don't want that...I want her to feel she is a 50-50 partner in our marriage.
It helps me at the end of each day, to know that she at least considers us being together, as an option. Before, it was not.
I will never be boring or complacent again. Although I am starting to realize that this point in our journey is all about her, I am using this precious time to get back to the authentic ME, that has been buried in complacency for years.
