you have given OW several points in this...
a) you have paired your H & OW against you..you are now the common enemy

b) ow needs rescuing from you by your H

c) you have given your H huge validation for what he is doing.

so yup im not gonna lie to you.....OW has made it into the bonus round. it was a stunt similar to that i believe that made my h file a few weeks later. except ow didnt come out.

i was alot like you, i had this crazy sense of fairness to an obsession point. very unhealthy. i had to let it go


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest