God give me the patience and the strength...2

[ddstartingover]

No 2 X 4 from me, TOH. DB or not DB, you are in charge. You know what is right for you-----and you do need to be in charge of YOU. Take the weekend to breathe, relax if you can, take time to get in control before Monday comes. Talk to L, listen to your options and make the right decision for you and your kids. After all, aren't we really all HERE to get educated and get support to find what is right for each of us? There's no right answer for everyone, each sitch is different.

Our hearts are BREAKING, we are in pain, yet we are to move on???? Well, we have to. For ourselves, and for those with children, for them as well.

Hang in there. You are strong enough to do what's right for YOU. Whatever you choose will be right.