It made me realize though just how detached I am. For the first time I can honestly honestly say that I have dropped the rope. It's been over a week now of feeling this way...I don't really even care that H is acting all mad at me. This is quite liberating actually.
Wow - I really have not been keeping up. You sound like you are doing really well.
I'm curious what was the turning point was for you? Obviously nothing has changed with your H, and if he is moving in with OW, then that is certainly a significant new development. I take it your H is consistently negative towards you?
Sounds as if you and your kids are having a lot of fun!
