I don't know if any of you here will remember it's been months and months since I've been around (actually probably close to a year now!!), I think my last post was.... Thread
Quick rundown of my sitch would be
H and I have been seperated since Decemeber 12 2005. April 12 is our anniversary this year would've been number 5.
H has 3 children and one on the way. I have two girls Felina who is almost 4 and Kiya who is almost 2. H's little boy will be 1 in June.
I don't know when his next baby is due, not my business really.
My problem as it stand is this:
As soon as I try to grow a backbone and tell him we are getting divorced, he either throws threats, gets mean, or goes the complete other direction and cries and says he'll fight it he doesn't want it to be over. He and I have been talking for about 6 months again now, "trying to work on it" per his request, I was trying to divorce him, and he pleaded his way back in... then obviously turned around and played his game again.
I just don't know how to proceed. I do not want to DB this, in the sense of fixing our marriage. I want to DB myself out of the depression that has taken hold since I found out he is having another child....
Any questions, comments, advice, 2X4's I will accept gratefully.
