Sounds like a really good talk. Not too emotional, which is good. Reconciliation starts with friendship mode, so you are moving in the right direction.
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Quick post about what's going on with me (I can hear D2 stirring in her room so she's going to be getting up an min).
Yesterday was nice. D2 liked her tricycle.. we took her for a ride on it to Baskin Robbins and had a tasty ice cream. We watched movies yesterday and talked about some ideas for me education wise. Overall it was a nice time. H put D2 down for bed and then came and sat on our bed.. since I was sitting on it. We snuggled and he fell asleep. I didn't. I just enjoyed the snuggle. I woke him up nearly 2 hours later and thanked him for the snuggle and he said "no thank you" and then tore out of here so fast. I'm guessing he must have had plans to do something but his little nap made him late?? Oh well, the snuggle was nice.
The only other thing to post about it that there seems to be something going on with my Mom health wise. She told me on Thursday that a couple of weeks ago she had chest pain and couldnt' feel her arm.. she's had tests run and nothing was found. She went for a stress test on Thursday and they said there were some things of concern so now she's getting sent for some other kind of test. I'm praying that she's find and these are just results are just nothing.. I truly can't believe that God would add anything else to my plate.. and if something were to happen to my Mom I don't know what I'd do.. I don't think I could take it.. so like I said, I refuse to even consider that there could be something seriously wrong! My gosh, she's already had cancer removed from both breasts and a heart scare from a few years back.. why can't she just have a happy and healthy life now???
Enough of that.. I've got to go. D2 is crying that she wants up!
Have a happy easter everyone. I'm heading out to my sisters today so I won't be back on until tomorrow (likely in the evening).
I'm jealous. One of the things I miss most is snuggling in bed with W and the calm serenity of our pillow talk. I almost miss that more than the sex. Almost.
Just remember - God never gives us more than we can bear. You seem like a very strong person and will get through this. We all will. Eventually.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
W2 sorry about your mom. My mom is the anchor in our family no question about it. I am happy you had some snuggles.....hope that is a sign of better things to come. just one word of advice from someone who has been through the rollercoaster on several occasions. Enjoy the moment but keep the PMA high and the expectations low if you can. Enjoy the day.
