Congratulations on going to the movies.. What did you guys go and see? I too am the stict and regimented Mom while H was the fun and playful dad. I'm trying to loosen up but it's not easy!
I'm glad you're reading DR. It really does make a difference if you're upbeat when speaking to your H. I know it isn't easy but it does get easier. I find it confusing that we need to act all happy because you would think that our H would say "hey she's doing alright, she's better than when we were together so I made the right decision" but supposedly it's the opposite.. because we are acting happy and they are not feeling happy.. they want to be around us because our happiness is infectious. So confusing!
It sounds like you are getting stronger all the time. You're doing great!
