Hey Kalni!

I am that size too ! I think Pisceans tend to be lean (ever seen a fat fish !?). I've always been that size and am lucky, but sometimes I wish I was more voluptuous and womanly! We always want what we havent got. I love your idea of getting a new image, thats perfect with Venus in Pisces for a few weeks (thats what you should do when Venus is in your sign). I tried the past few days, but I bought a coat and t-shirt...not very alluring ! I'm a bad shopper, I always pick up the same old styles. You've inspired me to try harder! Thankyou.

That can't have been nice to hear such a negative potrayal third hand like that (4th hand !?) of your sitch. I think its amazing that you told your H, shows you are feeling more comfortable in being honest with him. And its good that he didnt freak out, or go back into his nest, or all those other things that may have happened a few months ago. And good that he gets to see that this woman he has maybe confided in has ulterior motives...I would read that as however he has painted it to her, she has HEARD it as he is getting a D, because thats what she wants. (Wow, she spent 10 years in therapy to get over him? I know a woman who was in love with my BF for over 7 years and the one opportunity she had alone with him when he was very very drunk, she pounced and something happened, which he was mortified about afterwards. That was 3 years ago and I was thinking yesterday she would be delighted also to hear that we have split up, because she has loved him for 10 years secretly too. But hes not in touch with her, thank god. But wierd hey, our men have these 10 year candles for them!)

Um, waffling on, but ...I hope something comes out of the T session today..with that Full Moon in Libra..

Ali xxx
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Me: 37
H: 34
T: 9 years
ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07
Own apartment: 26 Jan 08


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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