I'm praying that cooler heads will prevail and that your H will stick with the original paperwork. I've lost my temper throughout this as well.. for me when I came down from the anger I felt empty and so very sad... I'm sure you feel the same. I found it makes it a little easier when you feel the anger rising the next time to reflect how crappy you felt afterward the last time.
All is not lost.. you're picking yourself up and DBing.. you've got strong spirit..
And you've got it with the validation and understanding. That is probably the one thing I've really focussed on and done a decent job through this DBing business.. and it did make a difference. I think it helped me get my H to the friendship stage.
