Update; WAW is back being friendly and cooperative again. She doesn't act or sound depressed any more. She even walked our S down to my local cafe today for handover and let me take S on a fun run in his pram last week which was her day. It is better for our S so I'll take it as it comes but for some reason I am very suspicous of these 'nice' moments.
-------- Me; 38 W; 34 1 4yr old S Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs Bomb; 15 June 2007 Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008