Circles

[phoenyx]

I have been dating a woman that I was friends with 13 years ago. I had feelings for her back then and she for me, but we were young, and to not go into a long and dramatic(but really good) story, we will just say nothing ever materalized. So I had decided that I was going to stay alone until my 4 year old was 18. I hadn't had luck dating women as most had turned out to be not people that I would want to spend a whole lot of time with, or bring around my boys. So about a month after I make that decision I came across her name in our departments global address book and I sent her an email. We became friends again and friends quickly became more. We are getting married in October. I needed to wait until I was happy being the man that God made me. I truley believe that everything happens for a reason. I did what I could to save a marriage with a woman who was having an open affair. My girl did the same thing, fought to save a marriage that her husband was doing the same. Actually the ways that our lives parralelled since we walked away from each other so long ago is kind of scary. The fact is that I can live without her, I just don't want to.

I will take the skills that I learned on this very bulliten board and use them to have a healthy Marriage.

I need to thank some people that I have met here.
First off my sister... AmyC you forced me to realize that it is none of my Damn buisness what Gods plan is for me, and helped me realize that it is OK not to know everything all the time. Amy you saved my life and I will never forget that, and I will always love you for it on behalf of my boys thank you. You are a Godsend here and anyone who says different about you is flat out wrong.....period

FrankD, you showed me how to, and why I needed to, "man up"..... for me.(please my friend go back and read you old posts on my threads, you need them right now as much as I did)

Brand New Day, you are like a mother to me, you knew when and how to say things that needed to be said to make me see.

Lissie, you soooo helped me lighten up.

Becca, thanks honey, for just being Becca.