I don't think it is too late, it sure does seem like it when your W acts all indiferent and the stich seems hopeless, it isnt.
Due to the unhealthy pattern that was never really broken it will take a lot of your patience to ride out this storm. Dont'hold your breath, this stich could last many months.
Living in limbo is no fun, but you must accept that for the time being this is how things will be, she wont' change her mind overnight. At this point she seems like she wants nothing with you, but that doesnt'mean it will be like this forever, there is always hope.

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but if she doesn't......

You must face this fear, only then will you be able to have strenght to wait for her as the months go by. I know it hurts, but to find strenght and confidence in yourself you must plan for the worst and KNOW you will be ok.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.