How are you? Saw you stopped by my thread. My sitch is pretty convoluted so if you read it, settle in with a cup of tea or a glass of wine first!
I don't think it's wrong to plan something fun with your H. It's all what you feel is right, do what feels good for you. You've been keeping your distance and have been fairly detached from him. If your goal is to R your M, my opinion is that it's good to not go totally dark. Have fun with him. Keep it light. Let him see what he will be missing. You certainly had fun with him the other day.
Just make it casual. Don't set yourself up for a fall. If you're just started walking, you don't want to run yet!
