I have got in the habit of looking at the clock when he leaves I know hoe long he was gone. The problem with my H is he does not know when telling the truth is the more viable option. Of course I assume if he is gone any extra it is about OW. That being said when it was time to go out for dinner he knew that the bar I had suggested earlier - no where near his location was open. For years we have fought about this bar, strangely now if he said he drove by to see if it was open for fish and chips and stopped for a beer I would have been fine with it, but he always tells a lie if the truth may involve a confrontation.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009