Hi Olive..I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I just today said the same thing. That the OW won and got her way. This is what she wanted, she even told me so last week.Part of me tried and tried to hold on and look the other way and i believed his lies time and again. But finally we reach a point and maybe sometimes as hard as it is to accept we realize maybe this is how it's meant to be, maybe we weren't so happy after all, hurts though i know. Just stay strong!! I need to do the same thing. The reality of it is starting to hit me like a ton of bricks.


Me: 36 H: 34
2 D's: 10+13
Married: 13 yrs(Together 15)
Found out about A-Jan 08
Finally ended April 08..I hope??
Struggling to co-exist in peace