You sound so great!!!! I am so impressed. Your H must be getting the impression that your life is better without him. You are doing your cookie thing, spending time with friends and going about life. I really think that you are the true example of GAL and PMA.
However your life turns out with or without H, you are going to be a better, stronger woman for it!!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!