I know it's extreme -It was puposefully so for illustrative purposes. Just accepting everything you are told does not always make for a great outcome. I was just putting that point forward and trying to illustrate that one perhaps should not just accept things when they appear unjust and without validity.

I was brought up to believe that rules are for the obedience of fools and only the guidance of wise men, (women).

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength