ADVICE Giving and Receiving

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There's a lot of advice all over the board. And a lot of folks requesting advice. You want to help. How do you know if you're giving good advice?

Most folks here are looking for hope. Looking for answers. Looking for a CHANCE to save their marriage. Some have been delivered a bomb. Some are just not satisfied, or their partners aren't quite satisfied....they want to make things better.

When you read someone else's story, you get a feeling. You may have seen something similar, you may have an opinion. Or you may not have a clue ... but you want to help.

THAT'S GREAT. You can ALWAYS offer SUPPORT. Or point them to some idea you think they can try ... especially one of the creative solutions in Divorce Remedy. Or tell them what worked for YOU. Or tell them what DIDN'T WORK for you...

Unless someone is seriously being abused, we should never encourage someone to leave their spouse. People come here to be uplifted, to get hope...to learn to do things differently.


No one can ever tell you or anyone else when a marriage is over. That's a decision only you can make. We've seen literally thousands of marriages survive and thrive after many would have thrown in the towel. Here we help you come up with creative solutions to help you save your marriage!

If someone decides to leave, if they feel they have given enough....we should support them, or challenge them, if that's necessary.


As Michele tells therapists....if you really feel there is no hope...fire yourself.