daisey in my situation the OW is younger, good body and attractive. he says he was in love, it was just a feeling he had no control over. sex was natural and easy with her that is why he wants nothing to do with me at this point, he is afraid it will not measure up. he is going to C and that seems to be helping but it seems as if he is back because he should be, but if he could make a decision without any reperussions or guilt, he would choose her. according to him, they are more in sync with each other. I am trying to be patient and be his friend and not constantly dwell on the fact there is no intimacy between us but it is hard. how are you able to deal with the fact that a friend did this to you? do you still speak? the OW in my situ was my H's co-worker.
