Refuse To Lose, Part VI

[AliSuddenly]

Wow! Gosh, this just gets worse. I'm so sorry for you, you sound so calm in your posts, but you cant surely be? I emailed you some stuff about her parents...but your Ws irrational fear of being terrified of you and now this, being afraid for her D (what W would automatically jump to THAT conclusion when shes lived with you and knows you are just a loving Dad??)..it all makes me wonder about her R with her own father. I'm just saying. This stuff is so out of kilter.

Try not to worry about the school and all that..wouldnt she have to make some specific allegation? Sounds like she is in a dark place to be honest, to be able to twist things in her mind the way she is. I wish you had her birth time as you said! I'd love to know if she is having a Pluto transit, because it sure sounds that dark and destructive to me. Still, no way of getting it. Anyway, I dont know what to advise or how to help you, I really dont... except, this is very serious now... I wonder what anyone else thinks, but I'm inclined to think, sod the DBing, you need to stand up for yourself and tell her in no uncertain terms that you are horrified by her insinuation that she has no right to keep your D from you, shes your D too !!! Why does she get to decide when you see her?? I dont get it. Why doesnt your D live with you and you tell your W she can collect her next Tuesday or whatever. It makes no sense to me.

Follow your L advise, but also, I dont know, if it were me, I would have to speak up in my defence here, despite DBing?

Ali