Sounds like less availability is the way to go, but now W is so comfortable with our situation she has been dropping by the house unannounced. Actually, it probably has something to do with her new car. She bought a new car over the weekend and doesn't want to smoke in it (stress caused us both to pick up this nasty habit after separating... actually she picked it up a couple months earlier). She's been coming by to take smoke breaks at the house because it's close to her work. Anyway, it's no big deal. She just suprises me sometimes when she shows up.
What is a big deal and also another conflict with the availability thing is that she wants to go out with me tonight. We're going to dinner then out to a friend's house where some of our old friends are getting together. This is a big step for us. We haven't hung out with our old friends together since we split. It's going to be an interesting night... You gotta admit that this is one I shouldn't pass up.
