Gotcha, have you read "Womens Infedility"? Just wondering if you thought it applied in your sitch. I think it did in mine, but the WAW doesn't talk about it. We signed final paperwork two weeks ago and she is involved with a MM. I don't think it will last but she talks so terminal with me.

I know that in the end she will see that we had something really good and will regret her decision, but I am trying to figure out how to make it okay for her to say it.


Me 38
Her 31
Daughter 3

Dated 5 yrs
Married 7
PA Bomb 7/26/07
Sep 1 9/1/07
Sep 2 1/5/08

D filed 3/08/08
Final 4/08/08