Hi Addie. Thanks for the advice. I'm calm now after begging him for 30 minutes this morning not to sue me.
We spoke for about an hour this morning when he picked up D. At the end he told me that in truth he had no idea what he was going to do. So he has started faltering already. Hopefully he'll stick with the origianl plan. The mutual D papers have been filed. He told me he was going to withdraw those and submit new papers.
He's so sad about everything. Told me that at his C session on Wednesday he spent 1hr 20min of a 1hr 30min session crying. The doctor wanted to put him on ADep. but he refused.
I need to step the understanding/validation aspect fast.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
