Thanks for the support I did it right. I'm glad nothing happened with the old friend, hope she's not too embarrassed to get together again in the future. Funny, I always thought she was out of my league, but before the drinks kicked in she told me she would have died if I had asked her out when we were younger and single. W said that the in love feelings are gone and I said it was the same for me but I would like to date to try to rekindle that flame. Oh well maybe by continuing to DB, she'll come around.
Looking back at how she was and treated me a few months ago to now, there is a big difference. Just got to keep plugging along. At times she seemed to be really listening, when she talked I did my best to just hear her.
H not ML when he came back from out of town, just cuddling I think is a huge step. I know that cuddling w/o ML for me is a bigger expression of love than ML.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26