I'm new here and was looking around. Just skimmed through your theads. I think that we are in a similar boat. You can check my situation out on my thread.
I also have a live-in WAW. It really stinks. Sorry to hear about your health too.
One thing I am doing to start acting is attend Codependence Anonymous meetings. Its a 12 step group for people who spend too much time trying to solve others problems and not enough on their own. (Gee, maybe that's why I'm here?) If your interested, the web site is http://www.coda.org. The meetings are free and I get more out of the meetings than I do my C. Still seeing C though cause he can help me sort through issues from the meetings.
Hope you get what you want in life.
H - 47 W - 44 M - 18+ years Separated? - 4/07 S - 13 S - 15
