No. Let it lie for now. It sounds like you are trying to defend yourself, and DB principles don't want you doing that!

I know it's hard not contacting her, but I really think you need to create a bit of space between yourselves right now.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!