Hi lwb

Ah yes...'the routine'. It has been far too easy at times during all this, for my very similar kind of 'routine' to verge on an obsession...largely, i think, because of my fear of feeling like a fool or a dupe. Dumb, huh...

I am doing better these last couple of days...of course, H is leaving his new shiny toy (the cell) out in his way cool home office (our garage efficiency), so it's easy to avoid that.

I think one of the things that periodically trips me up is that since H has until now worked very hard to keep all this a secret from me, we have quite a bit of good, happy family time together. We're off to a fight this evening...maybe a hockey game will actually break out while we're there ;\)

My own plan for the weekend is to commit to paper a list of goals for the upcoming year... and to try not to eat too much chocolate at a fun neighborhood party on Sunday!

Happy Easter all!!!

L2


Me: 49
H: 49
M:21,T: 24
S18, S12
Bomb #1, 5/02; Bomb #2, 12/06; now sleeping elsewhere

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