im sitting in front of my computer and fighting the urge to write her a letter. I want to reach out to her and tell her i im not giving up. since she finaly told me what the problems were in the marrage ( neglect and lack of respect) UI soo want to write her and tell her and ask how i DID show this . that way i know how to communicate it not how i want to but she does. this does not mean that i am changing my deffinitions for my own feeling of respect and feeling wanted, i just need to cater my message to her when directed twords her. what do you all think? would this be a ok communication
