Please Help, Divorce Almost Final!!!

[jerry161]

I should mention how the struggle started. My wife had an emotional affair about three years into our marriage and I got mad and resentful and to feel secure I played games to make her feel she could lose me. When she seemed hurt to lose me it made me feel that she wanted to be there. And then she would have another affair and the situation would repeat several times. She never had sex or even had anything physical with anyone. Just e-mail or phone conversations.

For the past few years we have both matured some but our relationship has still been very hard. I got past the trust issues but still did not feel wanted by her always. A mutual blow up led us to here and now once again another man is involved. As soon as she moved out the guy was there and I believe she just met him as her job puts her in contact with a lot of people.

I want her back. After reading several books I am now convinced that we could achieve true happiness in our marriage. I think she is the WAW and also is having a MLC, but I am responsible too. I just want to fix it but maybe it's too late.