Water,

So sorry you are here, but there are so many wonderful people on this board, you will get tons of advice and really caring support.

You are incredibly strong for doing what you did... I feel your pain regarding the money issue. Im a sahm and my H owns his own business, and yes that does make a difference, especially when you have kids to support.

Do not get emotional around him, just post here. go dark, only contact about children issues and that's all, he needs to miss you hun.

Im in Ny to.. about 1 hour south of Albany!!

You take care of yourself and those girls.. Thinking of you..

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.