I just spoke w/ my L and he said he's seen this before and it is something that will work against W w/ our parenting evaluator. I can't do anything now but to sit tight and wait for things to happen. If W decides to withhold D from me this weekend, there is nothing I can do.
I am to bring this up to the evaluator on Tuesday when I see him and if W allows me to see D this weekend, I am to simply take it w/out question right now. I'm also supposed to pick something up to tape record all my conversations w/ W from now on.
This is awful. It is sad that she is becomming desperate and would resort to this tactic. I have always taken baths w/ D (w/ a suit or underwear on at all times) for the past 4 3/4 years and there was never a question. In fact, W would frequently yell "Daddy, are you going to get into the tub w/ D?" W knows I'm not like this and as long as custody wasn't an issue, this never crossed her mind.
This is pretty low and I'm trying hard not to become too angry at W for doing this to me. I have to continue to look at her as being broken here to make sure I don't start to hate her. It is hard to keep positive, but I can't allow myself to hate her or be angry by her actions. She doesn't know what she's doing.
As a teacher, I'm very concerned this could damage my reputation. If these allegations ever became public, I'd be black-listed. W is mean right now, but I'm not sure she's looking at the big picture and the effects of this on me (who she could care less about) and on our D. Right now, it is all about her and what she wants.
It is very sad. I miss my D. I haven't seen her since March 13th when I dropped her off at school. Now, I may not see her again any time soon. Very sad.
