I'm not much of a worrier! I let W handle that, she seems to enjoy it.
I know this is far less fun than talking about party planning...but somehow I don't think your W enjoys worrying - I think by definition nobody enjoys it. She probably feels obligated to do it because she feels like you won't, therefore she has to (teeter-totter theory). This may be something you could do some 180s on...whether on validating her worry, or even doing a complete 180 and letting your worry out to her.
Just a thought.
(((Jeff))) Happy Friday!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2