I know, it's hard for me not to respond, but he has his GF to take care of him. Besides, I think he's just trying some emotional blackmail. The reality of the D might be hitting him because by now H has read my response and has seen that I want more spousal support and to shed his last name as well.
Plus, it's not as though H said "Know that i loved you..." he said, "Know that I want to conclude our dissolution amicably".
