WOW, this is a great topic!!!

I'm a little further along in my post D R than most of you. I'm currently living with my BF, after living alone for 3 1/2 yrs or so. I've wondered too about the butterfly feelings cuz to be honest, I just don't feel them. And, like you, I've thought "maybe he's not the one." But......in this R, I "do" feel calm, peaceful, loved, safe and centered. Soooooo, if this is the alternative to the "butterfly feelings", I'll take it!!!