you sound like your really struggling-know that you are in good company-all off us have been there at some stage in this madness
Your w is being nasty because she wants to provoke you which in turn will validate her actions-if you are nasty back-she will be 'you see thats why I left'
What have you planned for YOURSELF over the easter break-treat yourself how you would treat your best friend.
I'm a bit ahead of you in terms of when bomb dropped and after 6 months the confusion and pain starts to ease a bit.
I know what you mean about moving on-ie dating again. But after listening to every-one hear saying what a bad idea it is i've decided not to-doesn't mean to say I havn't gone out with my friends and did a healthy amount of flirting!
There are more than one way to skin a cat!
Read all you can on how to detach from some-one -there's a link in the resource thread.
Two words I say to myself daily-Forgive and Detach
The day will come when you suddenly realize that you are actually not unhappy and if your not unhappy then you must be happy-be true to yourself -time as they say is a great healer-you won't have to ask if you should move on because it will have just crept up on you naturally while you've been focusing on yourself.
